Jesus said in John 12:25, "He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life." The Christian life seems a paradox in this upside down world. But when one understands the Resurrection, the mountains are brought low and the valleys are raised and perspective goes beyond the horizon. Here is a great little prayer from a devotional called the Valley of Vision.A Puritan prayer from The Valley of Vision:
Lord, high and holy, meek and lowly,
Thou has brought me to the valley of vision,
where I live in the depths but see thee in the heights;
hemmed in by mountains of sin I behold
thy glory.
Let me learn by paradox
that the way down is the way up,
that to be low is to be high,
that the broken heart is the healed heart,
that the contrite spirit is the rejoicing spirit,
that the repenting soul is the victorious soul,
that to have nothing is to possess all,
that to bear the cross is to wear the crown,
that to give is to receive,
that the valley is the place of vision.
Lord, in the daytime stars can be seen from deepest wells,
deepest wells,
and the deeper the wells the brighter
thy stars shine;
Let me find thy light in my darkness,
Thy life in my death,
that every good work or thought found in me
thy joy in my sorrow,
thy grace in my sin,
thy riches in my poverty
thy glory in my valley.
